I swear, I fail to understand the fear of sexuality that many people have these days, masking it with gender respect and white knighting. The increase of censorship, the rise of puritanism amongst young people, the topic about chastity, asexuality (ACES.... lol), all these things....
we are sexual creatures for christ sake, I'm in my 40s, I spent my younger days fucking like a rabbit, I met women and men with way way dirtier minds than mine and in my experience women are even more sexual independent than men...
Why all this fear? You can't even seriously ask this question because the answer is usually like "are you afraid they'll remove tits and ass from your precious vydiagaemh? ask women".... well, shit, I ASK women and they usually find attractive characters in videogames and anime... well, attactive?
edit: and where's the issue with the act of seducing? people love being seduced, being complimented. and if they don't a simple no thanks is enough. I wonder if this is something more american... in europe we are way more carefree about our sexuality