I was kind of there, but much younger. I went through a phase where I greatly disliked Japanese design, but not all of it. It was when my friends and I started getting into table top roleplaying. Western rpgs began to start being really damn good, and offered more choice. So that, and all the grim dark resonated with us instead of the usual kids save the world/universe. Deep down I'd keep buying and supporting jrpgs I liked even though I backlogged them because I knew my tastes would once again change. It took some time, I even stopped with anime for a good while.
But man did I swing back around hard, and I really love where I am at personally. I can love all styles of games regardless of their regional or stylistic differences. I can hop from Xenoblade Chronicles to Wasteland and Fable and Fallout, to 13 Sentinels, Persona, SMT, Neptunia, Atelier, DQ, and back to The Witcher, Elex, Divinity, Baldur's Gate etc. I've not been happier because I no longer struggle with cognitive dissonance about whichever style I think is "superior". I can just enjoy something for what it is. And I've noticed a few things about myself. I really prefer Jrpgs. There is a ton of variety in game design and especially art, which is what helps set these games apart for me. I love unique art that draws me in to a world, especially worlds that I'd actually prefer to live in, most western games tend to be horrible grimdark affairs that bring me down too much, and there is already enough problems IRL that I'd rather take a break from.
One of the complaints I see leveled at Jrpgs is the tropes, but something they handle well is how the story is told and characters are handled. Most stories are just reskins of what came before, sure there are some unique experiences every now and then and its important to recognize that. But there is nothing wrong for wanting to enjoy some comfort food. Its one of the reasons I love me some Musou games, I love the power fantasy seeing cool characters clear the map of mobs. Also, there are plenty of modern Jrpgs that have evovled with the times, letting players save more frequently and see enemy encounters on the field. Also plenty of difficulty options for those wanting to breeze through the game, or enjoy a more difficult experience.
I recommend taking a good lengthy break, play other genres, then when something finally catches your eye, and you get that hankering, you'll have a blast. That's what I did and it payed dividends.