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I'm sick of all the waiting...pls respond..I confessed to u...unacceptable behavior..

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OP, I don't usually like being this honest, but it's something you need to hear.

That was one of the creepiest posts I have ever read in my years of surfing GAF.

Not only is the girl not interested, she is likely afraid of you at this point.

And while that might not be fair, you may be completely harmless, there comes a time when we're socializing with other people that we need to take a step back and evaluate how we are coming off and what are actions are saying.

You missed that mark. Completely.

Also, we can't get so caught up in the result that we want to get that we completely ignore what's actually happening. This girl was not being subtle. She's just not into you. And you're so caught up in your own desires that you're not paying attention to any of the feedback that she's actually giving you. So not only you being creepy, but you're being self-absorbed.

Learn from this, OP.

See, what got me about the OP was that he seemed to get that she was drawing back and that only made him more desperate
and his dick harder
- it's just thoughtlessness.
 
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Tell her that she's your Destiny and you were made for her. It works flawlessly.
 
Oh god now that brings back memories

OP, read all of this: http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21533650696/help-the-girl-i-like-wont-respond-to-my-emails

OP, you are not that guy. Not yet. But you could be. The behavior you've shown is in the ballpark, you just didn't cross the line into stalker territory. Take a long step back and look at your attitudes and your life

I finished reading the whole story and.. I just... I mean... I... b-but...
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(´・ω・`)
I wish I could edit it with pics from that Tumblr
 
I'm late to the party, but texting her everyday? Hell, people in relationships don't do that.

also, you should've told her that you're meeting with a woman, and you can't go out to lunch anymore. Thatll possibly make her jealous.
 
Wait, I just re-read the OP and it looks like you asked her out again in the last week and she replied "when?" and "where?"

Is that true? Am I reading that right?

I just want to make sure. Because if after half a year she hasn't been able to find a way to say she's not into you in that way and is STILL responding to you, then she's definitely a coward. Are you both adults? You definitely misread signs badly, but she should have been able to say SOMETHING a little more direct after all this time. Unless you're teenagers, that's kind of ridiculous.
 
Wait, I just re-read the OP and it looks like you asked her out again in the last week and she replied "when?" and "where?"

Is that true? Am I reading that right?

I just want to make sure. Because if after half a year she hasn't been able to find a way to say she's not into you in that way and is STILL responding to you, then she's definitely a coward. Are you both adults? You definitely misread signs badly, but she should have been able to say SOMETHING a little more direct after all this time. Unless you're teenagers, that's kind of ridiculous.

One does wonder...
 
I've been there before, when I was in junior high/high school.
I had the shame to not post the whole thing on the internet, though.

Some good advice for you here in the thread, you'll terrify people if you try to force a relationship of any kind.
 
I finished reading the whole story and.. I just... I mean... I... b-but...
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(´・ω・`)
I wish I could edit it with pics from that Tumblr

When he
called her
, I got chills. Not to mention when
he grabbed her from behind..
 
I've been there before, when I was in junior high/high school.
I had the shame to not post the whole thing on the internet, though.

Some good advice for you here in the thread, you'll terrify people if you try to force a relationship of any kind.

Some good advice, yes. But I think a few of the people here are quite simply cruel.

I'm just going to say, honestly, GAF just isn't the best place for relationship advice, especially if you're young and inexperienced. I mean, there's been quite a few people who are trying to be helpful, but there's a good number of posters here that can be downright vicious.
 
It's so hard to keep up with good threads like this when I'm stuck going to family gatherings with my wife. Blah.


The whole "seen" mechanic is an amazing way to gauge just how insecure and needy someone is. Read it, mark it as seen, don't immediately respond.

WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME, DON'T YOU RESPECT ME? I HOPE YOU REALIZE THIS BEHAVIOR IS UNACCEPTABLE

Texting will probably result in the destruction of human civilization.

To be fair, that sort of thing has existed at least as far back (if not further) as intra-AOL mails in at least the mid-90s, where you could see the status of any mail you sent to anyone else on AOL - whether it was unread, read, and if it was read, at what time it was read.

hmmm interesting. but was is his approach/persistence that turned u off or was is his looks?

From the sound of it, she was never interested in the first place, nor was there ever the possibility of her being interested.

Interactions with women aren't always a matter of "If you do everything right they'll be interested, and if they're not interested, you did something wrong."
Sometimes, for a variety of reasons that might have nothing at all to do with you, they just might not be interested.

I think that's how I'm going to have phone sex.

"Okay now I'm hugging you accidentally touching your chest. Smiley face. LOL. Now I'm touching your hand colon three three and my heart is racing."

Touching your hand colon?...
Is that different than the other kind of colon?...

Either way, that sounds extra-creepy

Yes, I know, "touching your hand :33

I think the situation's pretty shitty for both sexes. One person has to be the "bad guy" and the other person has to deal with getting rejected, which can really hurt, especially if you're a pretty nice guy who just has sucky friends.

I wish there was another way it could work.

As much as we're trying to make a particular point to the OP here, there is a point in this as well - that, if you're a guy, just going around and making advances on and expressing interest in every woman you interact with - even if you drop the issue as soon as they indicate they aren't interested - is likely to get you mocked/ridiculed/ignored as well. So, there is an issue there as well.

Fortunately, with only dating websites, you can message everyone on there and no one will be the wiser <.< Just saying... >.>
 
It feels as though OP was this close to paying to have a plane fly in the skies over her place with a banner saying "WHY WON'T YOU RESPOND TO MY TEXTS <girl's name>?!!?!"

OP, you're creepy as fuck!
 
I'm watching that movie
About Time
. OP have you tried entering a closet or large cupboard, clenching your fists, and returning to the past? First thing to do- destroy your phone, buy a decent bottle of scotch, and forget she and everyone else who isn't you exists. Then put on Journey.
 
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I am crying from laughter these last pages
 
Not gonna lie, threads like these make me feel better about myself

It just reminds me of when I used to do things similar. Different technologies, but similar stuff. If you have to convince someone to go out with you, then they aren't interested. They might like being pursued, might like the attention, might even reciprocate some of it. But if they flake out all the time. not genuinely excited to see/hear from you, then they aren't worth the time. I think we all learn that lesson at some time in life.

At this point in life, I put up so little effort I do wish I was atleast a little like my former self. I just don't want to be bothered most of the time.
 
It just reminds me of when I used to do things similar. Different technologies, but similar stuff. If you have to convince someone to go out with you, then they aren't interested. They might like being pursued, might like the attention, might even reciprocate some of it. But if they flake out all the time. not genuinely excited to see/hear from you, then they aren't worth the time.

At this point in life, I put up so little effort I do wish I was atleast a little like my former self.

Low to no effort is the only way to go.
 
When he
called her
, I got chills. Not to mention when
he grabbed her from behind..

When he sent:
I would never consider killing or raping you, Denko, so don’t worry. Is that what you thought I would do?
I really lost my sh#t.

I feel bad for Denko, I was just reading and I felt so sick, I can't imagine what was the life of that girl back then, I hope she could forget about it eventually.
 
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