batbeg said:
I was 19 at the time, actually. No she's not my first girlfriend, and no I'm not going to "slow down".
I regret making this topic as I didn't realize moral GAF would be running in. Once again, I'm not looking for advice, as the details of my relationship were not entirely written in my opening post. Just wondering what others would do in the situation. Now I know :lol
By the way, the girl that she wants to have sex with is a friend of mine, and we've been together (the three of us) recently, so I am completely trusting everyone at every step of the situation here. I see nothing different between those who would be okay watching and me not being there to watch but being aware of it.
Hoestly, what the fuck were you expecting?
Oh...I get it.. you were ATTENTION WHORING.
You didn't ask for it, but I'm giving it anyway. 20 is WAY too young to be engaged. You haven't experienced ANYTHING yet.
Going down the who "group" road is just trouble waiting to happen.
I'm going to rile a few people here, but what the hell. I don't buy into the whole "bi" thing. It's just an inability to choose which side of the fence you want to be on. Same applies to your girl.
In the end, she wants to cheat on you, but figures it's "ok" if you're there and it's with a girl. She doesn't love you if she's not willing to make you her one and only, same applies for you. It goes against so many things as far as relationships are concerned. It's a meaningless engagement and you'll end up broken up.
Why? Because it'll never be "enough"... it'll never be exciting enough to be JUST you or JUST her.
You point figures at "moral GAF", but at what point will morality actually step in and slap you in the face? There's "experimentation" and then there's going down a road that there's no coming bacvk from.