Thanks everyone, it's always a sting to be called a "guy" and to be accused of being some sort of "trap", but when you live with this condition you have to expect to get that from some people. It's not exactly a common thing and not everyone understands. In fact, most don't. It's nothing I haven't seen before and I'm sure funkmastergeneral is only being cruel through ignorance, and that he wouldn't be like that if he got to know me. I really appreciate everyone else afterward being so nice and jumping to my defense.
I'm open about who I am on the trans-GAF thread for anyone to see in my post history - I gave a brief run-down of my story there - and I emailed Malar_m to make sure he knew about me before I posted, to let him know my deal and to ask permission to post those pics for the comedy value. I didn't want to risk making him feel awkward in the event that he might not know and reply with something he might later feel weird about once someone told him. The whole "It's a trap" thing is more of a Jerry Springer stereotype than an actual thing. I'm hardly a maneater. I haven't so much as held a guy's hand in over two years - but that's not due to being trans... whole other story.
We should probably just let it be now, or take it to the trans-GAf thread. I didn't mean to take part in a thread derail.