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[Gherid__lacksGPS]

Christopher Titus:
"And gentlemen, if you've been with a woman for over five years and she decides to get a boob job.....hehe, she ain't getting it for you."

Seriously though, she doesn't need one. shrugs

 

[Servbot24]

Small boobs are better. Support her if you have to though.

 

[PogiJones]

Oh and the sister who is the cause of all this should at the very least let you see the glorious tit's she's touting to your woman, making her feel lesser...

+I wonder what the youngest thinks of all this boob drama? Being the one of the 3 with the larger breasts.
THE POWER

I agree with you about insecurities in general, but I think you misunderstand their interactions. They're not competing or flaunting. The oldest got them years ago because she was feeling insecure generally about her small boobs. Now that my wife is hanging out with them, she's feeling insecure, not because of the oldest flaunting or feeling superior or powerful, but just because she's putting on big swimsuit tops while my wife is putting on tiny ones. They're open and candid and friendly about the whole thing. It's just an insecurity she's had for a long, long time that has flared up after she got bigger boobs from breastfeeding and then subsequently lost them, and is now spending time with her sisters with big boobs.

Hope that makes sense.

 

[brandonh83]

Boobs are incredible, big or small. I don't really think one is better over the other. I used to only want big ones but now that I'm older, both have some serious appeal.

 

[drexplora]

I agree with you about insecurities in general, but I think you misunderstand their interactions. They're not competing or flaunting. The oldest got them years ago because she was feeling insecure generally about her small boobs. Now that my wife is hanging out with them, she's feeling insecure, not because of the oldest flaunting or feeling superior or powerful, but just because she's putting on big swimsuit tops while my wife is putting on tiny ones. They're open and candid and friendly about the whole thing. It's just an insecurity she's had for a long, long time that has flared up after she got bigger boobs from breastfeeding and then subsequently lost them, and is now spending time with her sisters with big boobs.

Hope that makes sense.

The less understanding me wants to think, well the oldest should have put her insecurities in check for the sake of her sister..

But what you say makes sense
People are people yo!

Ill say wager the risks man.
How much do you like her boobs now, vs. the potential gain of an augmentation.
Is the risk work the gain?
Taking into consideration her thoughts, your research, doctors, testimonials.
Try and make a collection of varied before and after shots of women with breasts closes to your lady's. Get a picture for how things might turn out.

Regardless dude good luck!
( . Y . ) BEWBS!!

 

[out0v0rder]

Shes got a hot husband, beautiful child, and a nice body. Yet fake titty sister still makes her feel insecure. Shits fucked up. Good luck with whatever happens.

 

[mr jones]

Aight, lets talk about boob jobs.

My girl has contemplated it too (lift and symmetry), so I've done some basic research:

They CAN end up looking VERY natural. My sister has a friend who had hers done, and um, yeah. They look great.

The ones that I've felt, were saline. They felt pretty real. You could see the scar that goes from the nipple to the underside of the breast, though.

I guess you need to have regular check ups every few years after surgery. They need to check for leaks, and tumors that might form around the implant (!!).

The body is still growing and changing as she gets older, and her breasts will probably need "adjusting" as she gets older - more surgery.

Unless she's had cancer, or a horrible accident that affected her chest, none of this will be covered by insurance.

I dunno, man. I'm all for bigger boobs, but the costs and risk makes me VERY leery. Between the cost of the initial surgery, MRIs, and possible follow up surgeries, risk of scar tissue complications, risks of puncture/leaking, risks of cancer (or missing cancer signs because of the implants), and even choosing a good surgeon, just kind of puts me off.

 

[PaulExcellent]

Looked at all of the boobs posted.
so nice~

Well, OP. If she feels that they would make her feel better, even if you might be upset with them, she should be able to do as she pleases, no? After all, you're there to provide support. This is my personal opinion, though. And I'm a terrible person.

Still, I see your point and understand where you're coming from. Hell, the operation itself is a risk, which is definitely something to consider. I hope you both reach a decision that works for you.

Also, titsssssssssss~

 

[Lazyslob]

More than a mouthful's a waste.

Wrong. WRONG. How dare you!

 

[wedward]

Blamespace has really made this thread.

hold on I'm checking consumer reports for your wife's tit job

your wife's fake tits are going to be fucking humungous pogijones. I can't wait for this shit.

make no mistake, this chop job is going to affect each and every one of our households.

either she's typing out these posts or I'm about to white knight a dude's wife in his own thread about her jugs.

Absolutely incredible work.

 

[neorej]

My 2cents:
Talk to her about why she wants a boobjob. If her reasons are legit and sincere, find a surgeon who provides you with a complete picture of the pros and cons of implants. If the surgeon doesn't do this, he has no concern for his patients wellbeing and you should GTFO.

Also, general rule of thumb: you get what you pay for. Expensive implants are more natural to the eye and touch than cheap ones.

As for you: will you still enjoy looking at her naked , touching her and playing with her breasts after the surgery?
I can only speak for myself, but I don't like implanted breasts at all once the clothes come off. I don't like the way they look, move and feel.

If you have no experience with implants, get some. Talk about it with your wife, and hire an escort with implants. That way, both of you can decide whether it's for you.

 

[freshair]

I recommend this forum:
http://www.justbreastimplants.com/forum/

It's a place where women who have gone through boob jobs (and those who want to) seek advice from each other and the pro/cons of silicone/saline and submuscular/subgladular.

The popular method nowadays is saline implants under the muscle. It looks more natural and sags less over time, given that they're not overfilled. And in the (worst) case if it bursts, the solution doesn't harden over time. It also doesn't affect breast feeding if you choose to have kids.

Nipple sensitivity is also a factor, depending on which incision method she decides to go with. With this, you'd probably want to go with a breast base incision (about ~2 inches), rather than the armpit or bellybutton.

In going with saline, the scar will be minimal as the solution is filled once the implant is in body, whereas silicone is pre-filled and thus the scar is (potentially) as wide as the implant.

Also make sure to bring up aftercare with her. Implants don't just end after surgery. She has to follow up with aftercare and doctor visits, massages, special bras, etc.

 

[thesoapster]

Even good implants are still inferior, IMO, unless there is an existing issue with deformation. It doesn't sound like that's the case...I'd vote to keep them as-is.

 

[peanutbutterlatte]

I'm the jealous type. If a girl in a happy relationship with a man who's perfectly content with the size of her boobs wants a boob job, I'd be relatively suspicious.

 

[skynidas]

Fake tits feel really weird, i don't like them at all. It's like you are literally trying to hold a balloon in your hand

 

[tri_willy]

nothing wrong with bolt ons, some can have a bit of a natural feel to it if done correctly... have touched some that are nice and plushy and some that are rock hard

 

[HolyBaikal]

Why does she want breast enlargement surgery?

I don't understand why anyone would want larger breasts, to be honest. :/
If I were a woman, and I had breasts, I'd get a breast reduction surgery.

 

[Necromanti]

I think it might be helpful that she first spoke to a therapist/counselor about her insecurities and her desires--which should precede any major elective body-altering surgery, really--so that she can ascertain whether she really wants it done, and make sure to perhaps work on that insecurity so that she makes an informed decision from a sound place. Also, getting a breast augmentation only fixes a symptom of insecurity without actually addressing the root issue--while it may indeed make her feel better about herself, that won't really stop her from continuing to feel insecure.

 

[HolyBaikal]

I think it might be helpful that she first spoke to a therapist/counselor about her insecurities and her desires--which should precede any major elective body-altering surgery, really--so that she can ascertain whether she really wants it done, and make sure to perhaps work on that insecurity so that she makes an informed decision from a sound place. Also, getting a breast augmentation only fixes a symptom of insecurity without actually addressing the root issue--while it may indeed make her feel better about herself, that won't really stop her from continuing to feel insecure.

I agree with this. It's important to know why she wants bigger breasts. And whether her feelings might be best resolved by doing something else.

A professional therapist or counselor would know better than the people in this thread.

 

[Platy]

Christopher Titus:
"And gentlemen, if you've been with a woman for over five years and she decides to get a boob job.....hehe, she ain't getting it for you."

EXACTLY !

...she is doing it for herself =P

If she done this for you it would be the worst way to do it.

 

[itsgreen]

To make an informed decision on what to do I think you should post some pics of them...

But no, I would urge her not to do it, but support it if she wants it....

 

[perryfarrell]

A professional therapist or counselor would know better than the people in this thread.

Lolwut? She needs mental help now? Nonsense.

If a guy wants to show off, he can get a nice shiny sports car or a fancy suit. His wife can get a boob job or expensive jewelry. They'll cut quite the figure around town. So what? It's what some people like, nothing weird about it.

 

[neorej]

nothing wrong with bolt ons, some can have a bit of a natural feel to it if done correctly... have touched some that are nice and plushy and some that are rock hard

Jacknicholsonnod.gif

 

[Kid Ska]

This thread is killing me. She looks fine as is, though, OP. And boobjobs are kind of risky, anyway. I'd recommend asking her to take a few weeks to think about it, it's probably a heat of the moment thing after visiting her sister.

 

[HolyBaikal]

She needs mental help now? Nonsense.

It never hurts to consult a therapist before making such a major decision.

It doesn't imply you're mentally ill.

 

[Musha_Soturi]

M boyfriend is a fan of big boobs, and he wants me to get a boob job. He even said he'd pay for it.

At the moment I am a 34DD thanks to the weight put on over Christmas (taking me up to 10st 9lbs) but I'm usually a 34D (normally just under 10st). I'm perfectly happy with my size so I've always said no, but I have said that after I've had a couple of kids and no doubt lost my perkiness I'd be happy to then go ahead with one.

 

[SquiddyCracker]

And the majority of her life she won't be pregnant/breastfeeding.

Oh, really?

 

[neorej]

M boyfriend is a fan of big boobs, and he wants me to get a boob job. He even said he'd pay for it.

At the moment I am a 34DD thanks to the weight put on over Christmas (taking me up to 10st 9lbs) but I'm usually a 34D (normally just under 10st). I'm perfectly happy with my size so I've always said no, but I have said that after I've had a couple of kids and no doubt lost my perkiness I'd be happy to then go ahead with one.

Boob lift girl. Less invasive, less risk, looks great feels natural.

 

[OverBlood 3]

Blamespace has really made this thread.

As always.

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

M boyfriend is a fan of big boobs, and he wants me to get a boob job. He even said he'd pay for it.

At the moment I am a 34DD thanks to the weight put on over Christmas (taking me up to 10st 9lbs) but I'm usually a 34D (normally just under 10st). I'm perfectly happy with my size so I've always said no, but I have said that after I've had a couple of kids and no doubt lost my perkiness I'd be happy to then go ahead with one.

just get a breast lift. less danger and easier surgery. I have no idea why people immediately opt towards implants, especially if they already have a arge bust.

In your wife's case though, I can see why she's want to have the implants, especially if her sister got them and love them. Save up for a good pair, don't go cheap.

 

[Fattony12000]

"Floppy Naturals." - Ryan Davis, Giant Bomb.

 

[Courage]

M boyfriend is a fan of big boobs, and he wants me to get a boob job. He even said he'd pay for it.

At the moment I am a 34DD thanks to the weight put on over Christmas (taking me up to 10st 9lbs) but I'm usually a 34D (normally just under 10st). I'm perfectly happy with my size so I've always said no, but I have said that after I've had a couple of kids and no doubt lost my perkiness I'd be happy to then go ahead with one.

goddamn and i thought i had a big boob fetish

 

[BGBW]

Tattoo QR codes on her chest and use AR to super impose bigger breasts on her!

 

[Opiate]

I don't really agree with those saying that it's her body and her choice. When married, your spouse is literally intimately involved with you on an ongoing basis, and as such I don't feel these decisions can reasonably be made in a vacuum any longer.

As a separate example, if I really wanted a tattoo but my girlfriend was strongly against it, I'd probably not get it. She would probably be looking at it more than I do anyway. In short: I don't feel that people are islands of personal choice once they decide to share their lives and bodies with someone else on an ongoing basis.

 

[SillyEskimo]

It's a short term, quick fix solution to a deeper issue of self esteem. Fake tits are like putting a band aid over an open fracture IMO.

If a woman insists, go big or go home.

 

[entremet]

I don't really agree with those saying that it's her body and her choice. When married, your spouse is literally intimately involved with you on an ongoing basis, and as such I don't feel these decisions can reasonably be made in a vacuum any longer.

As a separate example, if I really wanted a tattoo but my girlfriend was strongly against it, I'd probably not get it. She would probably be looking at it more than I do anyway. In short: I don't feel that people are islands of personal choice once they decide to share their lives and bodies with someone else on an ongoing basis.

This is a good point. Relationships are about compromise.

 

[bud]

what they don't tell is that those things will get wrinkly in a few years.

 

[PirateKing]

I don't really agree with those saying that it's her body and her choice. When married, your spouse is literally intimately involved with you on an ongoing basis, and as such I don't feel these decisions can reasonably be made in a vacuum any longer.

As a separate example, if I really wanted a tattoo but my girlfriend was strongly against it, I'd probably not get it. She would probably be looking at it more than I do anyway. In short: I don't feel that people are islands of personal choice once they decide to share their lives and bodies with someone else on an ongoing basis.

I'm two comments behind but pretty much this is how married life goes.

 

[jmdajr]

What about ass implants?

 

[SmokyDave]

Man, I used to like you OP

can someone please check on smokydave

I'm OK. A little bit shaken, but OK.

I don't really agree with those saying that it's her body and her choice. When married, your spouse is literally intimately involved with you on an ongoing basis, and as such I don't feel these decisions can reasonably be made in a vacuum any longer.

As a separate example, if I really wanted a tattoo but my girlfriend was strongly against it, I'd probably not get it. She would probably be looking at it more than I do anyway. In short: I don't feel that people are islands of personal choice once they decide to share their lives and bodies with someone else on an ongoing basis.

I'm citing this post later on when I tell Mrs Smoky she's off to have her norks done.

 

[Lambda Pie]

no such thing as fake boobs. if you can touch them they're real.

 

[ShadowgeistX]

Sometimes you can't see the lie, but you can feel the lie...just think about that, and if you're okay with that then there's no reason not to go ahead. Personally I can't stand the feel of bolt ons myself.

 

[BGBW]

no such thing as fake boobs. if you can touch them they're real.

FigurineGAF rejoices!

 

[Ghizz]

how bout get vaginaplasty to make her virgin tight again

more bang for yr buck bro

LOL. this.

Also, I say if she wants it, let her get it on the condition that you both have to promise to spice things up! should be fun

 

[anarckitty]

Hmmm. It sounds like all parties would be happy with just a breast lift. She's obviously going to do what she wants, but maybe she should do more research into just getting a breast lift. That way they'll still be natural, just more perky again! =)

 

[zma1013]

Compromise.

Get 1 of her boobs done.

 

[andycapps]

My wife has mentioned getting one done in a couple years. I'm okay either way, but if she gets them done, I want them to be bigger but not pornstar big. She used to be a C, now is a B, but would probably want to be a D. I'd be okay with that.

Keep us posted, OP. I'll be subbing so I can see if she gets them done how she feels afterwards about the experience.

 

[bro1]

My wife got them done and I love it. She is not very social and doesn't go out much, but did it because she lost weight and has been trying to feel better about her appearance. and I like to motorboat

 

[Deathmistress]

M boyfriend is a fan of big boobs, and he wants me to get a boob job. He even said he'd pay for it.

At the moment I am a 34DD thanks to the weight put on over Christmas (taking me up to 10st 9lbs) but I'm usually a 34D (normally just under 10st). I'm perfectly happy with my size so I've always said no, but I have said that after I've had a couple of kids and no doubt lost my perkiness I'd be happy to then go ahead with one.

Omg don't do it. Implants with already large natural breasts can be disasterous as they sag at different rates :/ I've seen it first hand with my cousin and that shit is nasty and requires surgery

 

[Yjynx]

Simple answer: Don't

could be less sensitive after it. you and her wont enjoy it.