No one cares about the dictionary definition. They are pedos. End of
So if you were 16 and had sex with a 14 year old would that make you a Pedo? Its a tough subject this one and I struggle to see where the line is.
When I was 14 I had got with a 14 year old and although it was a while ago I remember all the lumps, bumps and hairs being in all the expected places.