I was having a conversation with a friend of mine who is a hardcore gamer type and it was just exhausting. I notice it is the same kind of elitism and attitudes towards anything mainstream or AAA in the case of gaming and the way they insult those who have more mainstream tastes or casuals as gamers like to say. There is also this hyper analyzing of every aspect and nitpicking every little detail and just superior attitude. Honestly I used to be a music snob so that conversation reminded me of my old days.
The problem is that anyone who takes more than a passing interest in games, movies, books, music etc will tend to not only be more knowledgeable but will also have a keener desire to discuss and analyse finer details.
If you've got Person A over here who just listens to the radio in the car on the way to work and that's it and Person B over there who takes time out of their day to listen to specific albums and then wants to talk about it then who do you think is going to be more interested in analysis and nitpicking etc?
So it's naturally going to be the same in gaming.
I would agree with you though, mostly. If people are enjoying their games then just let them be.
Looking at a game like Animal Crossing I find it pretty easy to just feel that although it's not for me I can see why so many people would love that stuff.
No problem.
Some people can't really do that though and it becomes a kind of mockery of people who like different things.
I agree with your friend that story driven games are mostly just crap even if they are technically impressive.
That's fine though because I can just avoid those games or pick them up on discount or whatever.
Some I even just buy at launch anyway because I am interested.
Look at the near constant console warring on here these days.
It's not just hardcore gamers vs casual gamers.
Everybody seems to be "attacking" or "defending" something so I wouldn't let it bother you.
In a way you've kind of just fallen into the trap here, haven't you?
"My friend thinks he's so much better than casual gamers, what a snob, hardcore gamers are the worst, so glad I am better than them."