So, my boyfriend revealed to me a few months ago that he has this fetish where he wears an adult diaper all day around the house. He absolutely loves it. He even said that when he pees in said diaper, it makes it feel sooo much better. I thought that it was okay that he had that. He has his own things and I have mine. Except I'm really dull and boring compared to him. I don't really have any fetishes, sexual or non-sexual.
I didn't really think much of it until he made some new friends over the Internet that apparently share the same fetish. He didn't tell me about the fetish part, just that he made some new friends. I thought that it was cool because we need some gay friends since we are literally the only gay couple that we know in our current circles of friends. But the thing was that he was hanging out with them without me. I was getting kind of jealous because he would go over there every couple of weeks or so without me. I didn't think much of it because he said that he was still getting to know them. Okay, fine. There was one point where he nearly lost contact with them because he said they were pretty boring and hadn't talked to them in a couple of months. I didn't think much of it until he started to recently hang out with them again without me.
Then last week, he revealed that the real reason he went to go hang out with them again was because he wanted to get in on the diaper fetish. That was why he didn't want me around his new friends. He felt awful for keeping this secret from me but I forgave him since I didn't think it was that big of a deal. Every time he comes back from there, he tells me that all they do is sit around playing video games, board games, eat pizza, and drink alcohol. But they just do it all in their diapers. Some of them are fully clothed while others are pantsless.
I asked him what if he and I did it one day, what would he think of that. He said that that would be the sweetest thing ever but that I don't have to do that. So I'm not really sure if I should go through with it or not.
I haven't told a single person about this because I know it's a really embarrassing fetish but I figured that if I went to GAF about this it would be okay since he doesn't go on here. I've heard about this fetish, where grown men would be in diapers and get coddled like babies from women who get paid to let them fulfill their fetishes. But he doesn't do that. He just wears the diapers and goes about his day. But I just don't know what to do. Should I just continue to let him go on about this without me? Should I join in? Should I put a stop to it? I'm not really sure if I want to go through with this but I love him so much. Plus I'm always open to trying new things. I don't know. GAF, what should I do?
TL;DR: My boyfriend has a diaper fetish (not the baby coddling kind) and I'm not sure if I should help fulfill his fetish or not.
I didn't really think much of it until he made some new friends over the Internet that apparently share the same fetish. He didn't tell me about the fetish part, just that he made some new friends. I thought that it was cool because we need some gay friends since we are literally the only gay couple that we know in our current circles of friends. But the thing was that he was hanging out with them without me. I was getting kind of jealous because he would go over there every couple of weeks or so without me. I didn't think much of it because he said that he was still getting to know them. Okay, fine. There was one point where he nearly lost contact with them because he said they were pretty boring and hadn't talked to them in a couple of months. I didn't think much of it until he started to recently hang out with them again without me.
Then last week, he revealed that the real reason he went to go hang out with them again was because he wanted to get in on the diaper fetish. That was why he didn't want me around his new friends. He felt awful for keeping this secret from me but I forgave him since I didn't think it was that big of a deal. Every time he comes back from there, he tells me that all they do is sit around playing video games, board games, eat pizza, and drink alcohol. But they just do it all in their diapers. Some of them are fully clothed while others are pantsless.
I asked him what if he and I did it one day, what would he think of that. He said that that would be the sweetest thing ever but that I don't have to do that. So I'm not really sure if I should go through with it or not.
I haven't told a single person about this because I know it's a really embarrassing fetish but I figured that if I went to GAF about this it would be okay since he doesn't go on here. I've heard about this fetish, where grown men would be in diapers and get coddled like babies from women who get paid to let them fulfill their fetishes. But he doesn't do that. He just wears the diapers and goes about his day. But I just don't know what to do. Should I just continue to let him go on about this without me? Should I join in? Should I put a stop to it? I'm not really sure if I want to go through with this but I love him so much. Plus I'm always open to trying new things. I don't know. GAF, what should I do?
TL;DR: My boyfriend has a diaper fetish (not the baby coddling kind) and I'm not sure if I should help fulfill his fetish or not.
