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[Halo is Back]

I was wondering because I ran into this video. I feel like it's such a beta male thing to do but that's just me.







Well Gaf, have you ever done it? Did it work out for you??

 

[OmegaSupreme]

Silly beta shit.

 

[LaughingStock]

No. If I ask first it gives them time to run away.

 

[j0hnnix]

Sometimes you have to step back and ask yourself, what would Bill Cosby do.

 

[Pol Pot]

Same, except Bill Corgan. I imagine he would know.

 

[Cravis]

Sometimes you have to step back and ask yourself, what would Bill Cosby do.

 

[AJUMP23]

I dated a girl and every time I kissed her she said “thank you”.

 

[bender]

 

[nush]

That's some beta shit, just go for it if she pulls away or slaps you then you've read the room wrong. Just own it. I've never been slapped but had the pull away a couple of times. No biggie, no salt move on.

Don't be like Skippy.

 

[ArtemisClydeFrog]

No

A man takes what he wants

 

[Vicetrailia]

Yeah I have when I clearly knew the answer was yes, in a kind of funny/playful way. It’s like being an obvious fake gentleman, that kinda way.

 

[ArtemisClydeFrog]

in a kind of funny/playful way. It’s like being an obvious fake gentleman, that kinda way.

Please refer to bender 's post above

 

[triplestation]

 

[bender]

 

[Mossybrew]

Of course not, though my experiences with these things were many years ago, it just organically happened each time.

 

[jadedm17]

Heck no, and I don't even consider myself "Alpha"

Look for indicators like feet facing you, playing with her, touching face, etc.
It's really not hard to tell if a girl wants a kiss or not.

The 90% rule is great too : Lean in 90%, let her close the gap.

 

[Halo is Back]

That's some beta shit, just go for it if she pulls away or slaps you then you've read the room wrong. Just own it. I've never been slapped but had the pull away a couple of times. No biggie, no salt move on.

Don't be like Skippy.

Skippy is on another level of virginity. I actually feel pretty sorry for him, he has to have some degree of Asperger's or Autism.

 

[Cyberpunkd]

Given changing societal norms and consent education this will probably be standard for kids in 10 years.

 

[nush]

Skippy is on another level of virginity. I actually feel pretty sorry for him, he has to have some degree of Asperger's or Autism.

I think he leans into it for fame nowadays, it's all he's got. Apart from his right hand.

 

[Halo is Back]

I think he leans into it for fame nowadays, it's all he's got. Apart from his right hand.

Pretty much. He can't stop filming his "dates". That would be my first piece of advice for him.

 

[Burning Blade]

Men do what they want, boys do what they can, ya heard me.
- Project Pat

 

[GymWolf]

Usually when you kiss someone you are already pretty sure about the outcome unless you are shit at reading signals.

 

[Armorian]

Not really, it just happens

 

[Bernd Lauert]

I did it once and in hindsight I can see that it was a major turnoff for the girl. Never again.

 

[GymWolf]

I did it once and in hindsight I can see that it was a major turnoff for the girl. Never again.

Did she gave you the same face expression of your avatar?!

 

[Armorian]

I did it once and in hindsight I can see that it was a major turnoff for the girl. Never again.

Was that her reaction?

Sorry, couldn't resist

Edit:

Did she gave you the same face expression of your avatar?!

Damn you

 

[cormack12]

Who the fuck does that lmao.

 

[etp_1]

 

[Kenpachii]

Always have a lawyer with me, before kissing starts she needs to sign 3 documents and its recorded by 3 film crews 2 as backup.

 

[6502]

My god there is some nonsense on this subject.

You ask if she is clearly way hotter than you, you are unsure, on limited time and it is part of some banter.

Otherwise you roll the dice when the moment (or alcohol level) feel right.

Looking for a list of clues is very beta and shows you have zero confidence, or experience and thus have limited sexual value to normal women.

The rules are if they want to fuck you then its all good, if not then they will reject you. If they reject you then move on and don't be creepy or needlessly persistent.

There are no other rules, hints, signals or secret Davincci Codes.

Go and kiss / fuck some munters and work your way up once you know what you are doing.

A fedora and a blueprint of the perfect woman / romance will lead you to a life of jacking off into a sink.

 

[ArtemisClydeFrog]

My god there is some nonsense on this subject.

You ask if she is clearly way hotter than you, you are unsure, on limited time and it is part of some banter.

Otherwise you roll the dice when the moment (or alcohol level) feel right.

Looking for a list of clues is very beta and shows you have zero confidence, or experience and thus have limited sexual value to normal women.

The rules are if they want to fuck you then its all good, if not then they will reject you. If they reject you then move on and don't be creepy or needlessly persistent.

There are no other rules, hints, signals or secret Davincci Codes.

Go and kiss / fuck some munters and work your way up once you know what you are doing.

A fedora and a blueprint of the perfect woman / romance will lead you to a life of jacking off into a sink.

 

[Peggies]

Oh God please don't.
If a man thinks it's smart to ask such a stupid thing, the answer will probably be "fuck no".

 

[EviLore]

 

[nush]

Go and kiss / fuck some munters and work your way up once you know what you are doing.

Life skills!

 

[IDKFA]

No. I've had girls ask me, but I've never asked a girl if I could kiss her. Most of the time it just happened naturally without either party asking the other.

I'm really glad I'm married and not in the dating game anymore. I feel like you'd need written permission to kiss somebody these days.

 

[Dai Kaiju]

No, I usually just go for it but I recently heard women appreciate being asked first. It's respectful and stuff.

 

[Halcyon]

I will usually say 'i want to kiss you'.

I've never been denied.

I'm also attractive.

 

[T8SC]

I will usually say 'i want to kiss you'.

I've never been denied.

I'm also attractive.

 

[Kilau]

just go for it.

 

[Gonpachiro Kamaboko]

Yeah but I ask while holding up a couple of 20’s

 

[AlteredForms]

We’re living in a #metoo era and all this masculine talk is a load of bullshit and don’t fly. Guarantee most of these fools on here be lovey-dovey when the time comes.

Usually it’s courteous and respectful to slowly come in for a kiss to make you’re intentions clear with a woman in terms of body language. Or at the very least ask her if it’s appropriate for a kiss.

 

[Prison Mike]

 

[cormack12]

Prison Mike don't ask.
Prison Mike just takes.
That's why he's called Prison Mike.

 

[JimmyRustler]

Yes, it was no biggy and she went to be my girl.

 

[Armorian]

Prison Mike don't ask.
Prison Mike just takes.
That's why he's called Prison Mike.

 

[SpiceRacz]

Yep and I tuck my dick between my legs before I ask.

 

[plushyp]

I dated a girl and every time I kissed her she said “thank you”.

Did you say "you are welcome my dear" ?

 

[Ogbert]

No.

But I have asked if I can unload on her face.

Manners go a long way.

 

[DeepEnigma]

 

[T4rz4]

Bite her neck like a good vampire before. 100% success