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SDBurton
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(10-07-2017, 02:08 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

I'm in a loving committed relationship. I'm not going to throw away what I've built with that person.

My coworker and I have a ton in common. Like, to the point if something goes on, all we have to do is look at each other and we know what the other is thinking.

.....shit. That didn't sound good at all.

Do us a favor, ask for this thread to be closed and go spend time with your gf. Do at least one right thing for today. Relationship threads on GAF are just the worst, ugh.
gatling
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(10-07-2017, 02:10 AM)

Originally Posted by Capitan

subbed.

Nnnnnnn yeah lol
Plywood
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(10-07-2017, 02:11 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

This has happened a few times already and I'm conflicted because I like this person. Almost have a little crush on her too.

Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

I'm in a loving committed relationship.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqgW-2orQQg
BocoDragon
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(10-07-2017, 02:12 AM)
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I've been at workplaces where people take pics of others sleeping and it's pretty harmless. The thing is you probably shouldn't be sleeping at work, so it's a "caught you lol" kind of thing. But obviously if you ask them to stop, they should.
BreezyLimbo
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(10-07-2017, 02:13 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

I'm in a loving committed relationship. I'm not going to throw away what I've built with that person.

My coworker and I have a ton in common. Like, to the point if something goes on, all we have to do is look at each other and we know what the other is thinking.

.....shit. That didn't sound good at all.

Im already invested in your new relationship tho
BlueTsunami
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(10-07-2017, 02:14 AM)
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I'd be more worried she fingered your butthole
Septimus Prime
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(10-07-2017, 02:14 AM)
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Originally Posted by Stormhammer

maybe she takes the pictures so when she goes to sleep she can open her photos on her phone and open the picture of you sleeping so its like you r sleeping beside her

If her phone is a Nexus 6P, you'll only be "sleeping next to her" for a few minutes.
IchigoSharingan
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(10-07-2017, 02:14 AM)
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Hmm......I'm upsetting you fellas? Sorry to be a nuisance guys. Don't want to piss you off.

Requesting this thread be closed. Thank you for the insight and course correction.
Sho_Nuff82
(10-07-2017, 02:15 AM)
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Oh FFS if you already have a girl and you actually respect her, maybe you should make it known around the office.
Luminaire
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(10-07-2017, 02:15 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

I'm in a loving committed relationship. I'm not going to throw away what I've built with that person.

My coworker and I have a ton in common. Like, to the point if something goes on, all we have to do is look at each other and we know what the other is thinking.

.....shit. That didn't sound good at all.

Jimmyfenix
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(10-07-2017, 02:18 AM)
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Originally Posted by always crazy bacon



He's also got a daughter from this "Committed relationship".

Aww jeez
CarpeDeezNutz
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(10-07-2017, 02:20 AM)
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Originally Posted by always crazy bacon



He's also got a daughter from this "Committed relationship".


Wut...
MIMIC
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(10-07-2017, 02:20 AM)
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*after reading OP*

Me: Why aren't you two going out?

*after further reading*

Me: LOL. Cease and desist.

Dead serious, OP. Tell her to stop (or at the VERY least, that you feel that it's inappropriate and hope that she gets the message). Also, you know you can't realize whatever feelings you have for this woman, right? RIGHT?
Last edited by MIMIC; 10-07-2017 at 02:27 AM.
Outtrigger888
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(10-07-2017, 02:22 AM)
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I think you like your co-worker and are asking for advice to see if she likes you.
BigJonsson
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(10-07-2017, 02:22 AM)
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Is it her?

parrotbeak
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(10-07-2017, 02:24 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

Other oddities that go on that I don't know what to feel about:

the warehouse manager, when he hugs me, bites my shoulder or squeezes my nipples
my office manager caresses my hand abruptly when we play cards during breaks
He has also started kissing me on the cheek.

I don't reciprocate these behaviors.

That's not appropriate behavior and if I were you I'd report it to HR, especially if these managers are above you.
Aselith
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(10-07-2017, 02:26 AM)
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Is she doing it as some sort of threat? Like do you feel like she's trying to passive aggressively get you to stop doing it because she feels it is wrong or something?
Earthbound64
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(10-07-2017, 02:28 AM)
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Originally Posted by BigJonsson

Is it her?

Or:

hipbabboom
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(10-07-2017, 02:32 AM)
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Originally Posted by Zolo

Not coworkers, but I learned a girl who asked me out actually asked her friend to take secret pictures of me before she asked.

OMG! She was using you as fapping material to figuratively spank the monkey before your date! Creepy AND lewd 🙁.

P.s. If this woman is now your wife then please forgive my disrespect.
wandering
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(10-07-2017, 02:32 AM)
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Why is every thread like this
KillLaCam
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(10-07-2017, 02:32 AM)
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I thought that was a common thing lol. Just have to get them back. It doesn't seem malicious at all
Jimmyfenix
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(10-07-2017, 02:32 AM)
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Be like Homer OP
Akainu
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(10-07-2017, 02:33 AM)
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Sleep in a bathroom stall.

edit: that escalated quickly.
gdt
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(10-07-2017, 02:34 AM)
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Seems flirty and jokey.
Beartruck
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(10-07-2017, 02:39 AM)
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Originally Posted by chrisPjelly

I don't like where this thread is heading

I do.

*Grabs popcorn*
Greigor The Fellhand
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(10-07-2017, 02:41 AM)
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Op update in 2 months. We want to read more, your life is a Korean drama
Sho_Nuff82
(10-07-2017, 02:41 AM)
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Originally Posted by wandering

Why is every thread like this

OP knew what he was doing.
Smellycat
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(10-07-2017, 02:42 AM)
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Originally Posted by themagicalkitsune

There's probably a "people napping at work" tumblr somewhere.

I came here to post this lol

Your order pictures are probably on there, OP.
Baraka Obama
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(10-07-2017, 02:42 AM)
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Originally Posted by Septimus Prime

I know someone who had this happen to him and retaliated by taking pictures of his coworker while he was taking a piss. Don't do this. He lost his job. Obviously.

Maybe ask her out. Then if it works out, she can take pics of you while you're asleep outside of work.

Lol I wonder what the dudes reaction to that haha
jwk94
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(10-07-2017, 02:43 AM)
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That's really creepy.
Matrix XII
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(10-07-2017, 02:47 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

Other oddities that go on that I don't know what to feel about:

the warehouse manager, when he hugs me, bites my shoulder or squeezes my nipples
my office manager caresses my hand abruptly when we play cards during breaks
He has also started kissing me on the cheek.

I don't reciprocate these behaviors.

That is very odd behaviour indeed 😟
Baki
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(10-07-2017, 02:53 AM)

Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

CoworkerGAF I don't know what to think about this. I take naps instead of a lunch sometimes.

This has happened a few times already and I'm conflicted because I like this person. Almost have a little crush on her too.

Not the biggest fan of people doing things while I'm unconscious though. Am I overreacting?

What's the weirdest thing you deal with from coworkers?

How do I know this is a thing? She walks up to me after I wake and shows me.

Ask her out.

EDIT: Oh....Just read the update.

If you're good friends. Just tell her it makes you uncomfortable.
Tomohawk
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(10-07-2017, 02:57 AM)
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If it makes you uncomfortable tell her, but shes probably just teasing you/joking around and wouldnt think much of it.
Famassu
(10-07-2017, 03:06 AM)
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I mean, hard to say without actually seeing the pictures and knowing the person. There's a difference between

1) Finds you out each time you sleep at work, takes stalkery pics where she sneaks up close to you to take close-ups and trying to get some kind of sexy shots that she then prints out, draws hearts around your face and plasters on the walls of her apartment & uses as the desktop background image on her personal PC

vs.

2) something more innocent. Like she sees a friend coworker sleeping at work, maybe thinks that you look funny with your mouth open or something and takes a quick shot and then shows you with a "lulz, look at what you looked like when U were sleeping", "haha, caught you sleeping at work again", and then forgets the pictures are even on her phone afterwards.



I've had people take pictures of me sleeping and I've personally taken pictures of sleeping people. The situation has usually been something that is just funny or maybe I/they have looked funny while sleeping for some reason or just someone sleeping at a more public place and that makes it more or less picture worthy.
theaffection
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(10-07-2017, 03:11 AM)
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Hahaha thats weird as fuck man


But weird is good. Very good < 3
BigJonsson
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(10-07-2017, 03:12 AM)
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Originally Posted by Earthbound64

Or:

Nah, Mindy SImmons was the female Homer
Link1110
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(10-07-2017, 03:14 AM)
I do that sometimes, but I send the picture to the person and tease them about it. People nap pretty rarely where I work
spindashing
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(10-07-2017, 03:18 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

Other oddities that go on that I don't know what to feel about:

the warehouse manager, when he hugs me, bites my shoulder or squeezes my nipples
my office manager caresses my hand abruptly when we play cards during breaks
He has also started kissing me on the cheek.

I don't reciprocate these behaviors.

What the fuck I'm going to sleep
ArgyleReptile
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(10-07-2017, 03:20 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

Other oddities that go on that I don't know what to feel about:

the warehouse manager, when he hugs me, bites my shoulder or squeezes my nipples
my office manager caresses my hand abruptly when we play cards during breaks
He has also started kissing me on the cheek.

I don't reciprocate these behaviors.

Where the fuck do you work bruh?
parrotbeak
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(10-07-2017, 03:24 AM)
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Originally Posted by spindashing

What the fuck I'm going to sleep

We'll see
fade_
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(10-07-2017, 03:27 AM)
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She obviously hates you OP. I would contact HR immediately. Could you imagine if it got to the point where she could watch you sleep at home? The horror.
rainking187
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(10-07-2017, 03:28 AM)
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Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

Other oddities that go on that I don't know what to feel about:

the warehouse manager, when he hugs me, bites my shoulder or squeezes my nipples
my office manager caresses my hand abruptly when we play cards during breaks
He has also started kissing me on the cheek.

I don't reciprocate these behaviors.

Does your job hire a lot of people that have been fired from other places for inappropriate behavior?
Dynamite Shikoku
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(10-07-2017, 03:29 AM)
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Do you ever wake up with a boner
Mohonky
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(10-07-2017, 03:31 AM)
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Originally Posted by BreezyLimbo

She takes pictures of you.

You have a crush on her.

Ask her "hey why do you take pics of me" but say it in a playful way. Its your ticket in to get to know the person and maybe love?

This.

She might think you look cute in your sleep.

Or maybe she is trying to picture what you look like dead?
Lucumo
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(10-07-2017, 03:39 AM)
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Completely normal.

Earthbound64
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(10-07-2017, 03:40 AM)
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Originally Posted by Famassu

her personal PC

Her personal Personal Computer.


Originally Posted by BigJonsson

Nah, Mindy SImmons was the female Homer

Sure.
But Lurleen seems more like the woman OP's encountering.
Dali
(10-07-2017, 03:50 AM)
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Lmao at the topic. If you're on lunch then it's pretty messed up but me and my coworkers years ago used to do this. We werent on lunch though. This one dude I caught slipping so many times I had enough to change his desktop background to a big picture of him sleeping with a thought bubble floating up of another smaller picture of him sleeping.


Edit: I just read the last few replies above what I posted and apparently this is a totally different situation.
Last edited by Dali; 10-07-2017 at 03:53 AM.
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(10-07-2017, 04:02 AM)
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Depends on your relationship with her OP. My best friend took a video of me once while I was asleep in the living room while we were watching a film. He even provided a narration.

But I could tell it was done because he was fond of me as a friend and find it amusing. So I actually treasured that video. Have it doubled stored in two different hard drives as a memento of our time together now that we live in two separate countries.

I have no reference of your relationship with her other than you have a mild crush on her. So...

Originally Posted by IchigoSharingan

I have never let on that I have a liking to her. GAF is first to know, tbh. I keep it professional because I like where I work and want to keep moving up on $$$.

The latter sounds..... like something she would do if she had a thing against me. She keeps complimenting me in front of other coworkers though so I doubt it.

Oh wait, she has a crush on you too then.
Last edited by Replicant; 10-07-2017 at 04:12 AM.
Phu
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(10-07-2017, 04:05 AM)
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Originally Posted by parrotbeak

We'll see

kotor22
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(10-07-2017, 04:11 AM)
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Real answer: squash the picture taking and your manager touching you, report to HR if you need to.

Or sleep with both of them

Or you know ask your partner what they think instead of asking GAF lol, if you cant muster the courage to ask them about it then youre obviously hiding something from them, if it was just weird pic taking yall can talk about it.

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